Those of us who live in the outer boroughs or suburbs of New York City, and work in Manhattan, we have the choice of doing weekday Shacharit in three places- at home, in the local shul, or at a minyan in Manhattan. Here are the highlights of each:At your home:
- Daven at your own speed.
- Wake up any time you want.
- Wear whatever you want.
- Breakfast and the morning news are right in the other room.
- Saves time- no kaddish or amidah repetition.
- You can shuckel, jump, beg, as much as you want. It’s just you and HaShem in the room, and no staring congregants.
At your local shul:
- Services can start as early as 6:15am, so you can forget about watching Conan O’Brien. You need a good night’s sleep.
- Daven very quickly, in order to make the 7:21 train.
- Kaddish if you need to say it, shofar during Elul.
- If you can’t keep up, who cares? Just say amen to the minyan, and you’re counted with them.
At your Manhattan minyan:
- Daven close to work, so you won’t be late.
- Networking opportunities with other local professionals
- You don’t have to see the above people on Shabbat, so don’t fret about not inviting them over, or not being the sponsor of the mevorhim kiddush.
- Where company presidents and interns share the same pews and siddurim. It’s so utopian.
So here’s my story. I live exactly an hour from Midtown, where I go to school and work. As a BT, I daven kind of slowly, so if you have a problem with this, please stop reading now.
Upon moving into my new neighborhood, I tried the local Young Israel, which prides itself on the speed of its services. I call them “professional Jews,” in contrast to my novice training. This shul would like nothing more than a chasan every week- also known as the “Tachanun Eliminator,” a superhero of sorts.
I got a huge headache trying to keep up. Seriously, I cannot imagine how anyone could complete the Long Tachanun in less than five minutes. Where is their kavanah? If the Long Tachanun and Pesukei D’Zimra are such a bother, why not just skip them and read them later on the train? If it wasn’t for the Torah reading, what’s the point of a shul where the shaliach tzibbur sounds like an auctioneer?
In contrast, my Midtown minyan is a much better fit. It begins at 7:30am, and finishes within 45 minutes. The Garment Center Synagogue on 7th Avenue and W. 40th Street, is a mix of lawyers, accountants, and a few older Jews from the “shmatta business” that gave the shul its name. Here, we share jokes, trade business cards, take turns leading the services. We take our time unwrapping our tefilin. We know that we’re not going to be late to work.
In case this shul is not the right fit for you, try the Millinery Center Synagogue on 6th Avenue at 38th Street. This tiny building is covered with right-wing stickers. Here, you can relive the exciting Gush Katif protests of 2006. This is where I first met David Ha’Ivri during an AFSI lecture some years back.
It’s only 20 feet by 100 fet, surrounded by a towering Marriott highrise on three sides, in technical terms, an architectural holdout. It’s also where Chulent holds its meetings.
Midtown can be a chaotic place, but the shul is an oasis of tranquility, and a perfect place to start the workday. Oh, if you can’t make it to your local shul in the evening, we have minchah and maariv at 5pm. The rabbi here is a true comedian.
There’s also:
West Side Jewish Center, 34th street between 8th and 9th.
Or on the other side of town, Adereth El on 29th street just east of Lexington.
There’s also 393 5th ave (that’s btwn 35th and 36th.
Oh who could for get bet ha’mahtress
I think my building has a minyan.
Tru Dat on the Techanun!! I have been davening for years and am pretty fast and the only time get through it is when i daven by myself. In A Minyan By the time i get situated on my seat and rest my head just right i i hear everyone chanting Shomier Yisrael, and I am thinking what the hell? Nu! i am still on Hebet No or something. I think– NO NO Go back Go Back!!! Your leaving a man Behind!! but noone ever goes back.. ” are you kidding Me I make it this far you want I should go back oy vey you should live so long as to see me go back!!! you be eaten up by worm before i go back!– so what Do i Do like a Good Jew Do?- naturally I skip ahead and i start chanting Shomier Yisrael.
And Honestly that is really when i feel the Chavanh of Tefillah when I join everyone singing!
But your right- Techanun gets ax by everyone, i am sorry there is not an speed reading isreali in the world that can daven that fast.
Pes DiZim gets cut pretty bad too. but nothing gets cut like Tachanun especially Tues- Wed- Fri….. GOOD Call i am glad i am not the only one.
Would any of these midtown shuls be cool with a woman joining for weekday minyan? I went everyday in college and try a new shul each time I move to a new city, but it’s hard to go back when I keep getting dirty looks from everyone and rude grumblings from men vacating the women’s section (if there is one).
West Side Jewish Center is very close to Penn Station, is very welcoming and would be happy to have a woman in da house. Behind the curtain. of course.
Thanks!
chabad of midtown has everyday at i think 730 or 7 45 they are on 42nd and 3rd. I daven at that Young Israel a lot since it is pretty close to where i live and they are pretty amazing that they have a minyan every half hour from 6 till 9 (though no 8:30). i have davend at every time slot there for various reasons. the 7 30 is whats called the old ppl minyan since its already to late for ppl that have to go to work and to early for the college kids that dont have to be at class so early. they usually end at around 8 15 to 8 30 on days with laining. also i have come to grips that even if the minyans are a set 30-35 minutes a day. nothing wrong with that, how many ppl do we know that wont even bother to go to shul in the morning at least here we have ppl that will wake up the extra time to make it to shul and daven!
Weekday davening with a minyan is always a headache, but for nearly 2 years, it’s been part of my daily ritual. For years, I’d do Shacharis at home, all the while knowing that I should be with a Minyan. Then in January, 09 – returning from a trip to Israel – I realized that making it to synagogue wasn’t that difficult. Getting home at 5am, and not having any reason not to, I unpacked my Tallis & Tefillin and made it to shul – it took just a few extra minutes, and erased much of the incentive to stay at home (though I still miss a few days a month).
While getting to shul isn’t much of a hassle, the article gets it right that davening with a minyan can still be a pain. Along with getting to shul, I’ve also taken up saying Korbanos – it occurred to me that I had no reason for skipping it all those many years. Like the long Tachanun (or that last paragraph of Hallel) it’s something that’s probably always skipped over. If I give myself enough lead time – and even start ahead of the chazan – I’m usually up to “Ketores” when the chazan suddenly says “Rabbi Yishmael Omair”.
Ya Garment Center is a great place
I daven ther every AM. Shabbos also. There is something about that shul that does it for me. Really noticed it today because couldnt make it there
Awesome Shacharis service. Go there.
I´m from Mexico, and Im saying Kadish for my father, I´ll take a flight from Mexico to NY on july 24th, but it arrives at 7.00 am, by the time I clear inmigration and customs, and get to town, it will be probably 9.00-9.30 am.
Is there any minyan at that hour in Manhattan, my nusaj is Edot Mizrach, but I can daven in any other, it´s really important to me to say kadish, can anyone give me an advice?
Thank you in advance